Before we think of making your partner squirt, or reach orgasm. Please do these few simple steps first.

Gving a good massage isn’t just about skill—it’s about creating the right environment and connection.

Here are my key rules:

1. Establish a Connection: it’s crucial to build a genuine connection. This isn’t just about chit-chat; it’s about creating a comfortable and trusting environment. This connection also ensures that hygiene and cleanliness are prioritized, enhancing the overall experience.

2. Choose the Place: The environment plays a significant role in relaxation. I always select a clean, upscale, and private location. The first impression should be welcoming. Avoid places that are dark, suspicious, or have weird smells.

3. Trim Your Fingernails!  There’s nothing worse than an accidental scratch during a massage. Ensuring your hands are smooth and well-groomed shows attention to detail and respect for your partner’s comfort.

4. Plan Ahead: Good things take preparation. Schedule your massage in advance to avoid last-minute rushes. This allows for proper anticipation and ensures both you and your partner can fully enjoy the experience without feeling hurried.

5. Ask for review : After each massage, ask for feedback from your partner. This step is crucial for improving your technique and ensuring a better experience in the future. Either verbally or through text. If its through text, give them a sample format of the review. It should look like below. BE SIMPLE, don’t ask them to write a grandmother story.

(Example of my review)