In every profession, there are always a few individuals who can be seen as rotten eggs🥚, hurting the reputation of the entire field.

Here’s how to identify genuine versus non-genuine person providing the service:

• 🙅‍♀️Not Desperate: Not pushy, chooses who to engage with; showing confidence in their skills.
• 🔗Building Connections: Prioritize in building basic connection & bonding first before engaging.
• 🎁Sharing Experiences: Not selfish, openly share their personal stories and lessons learned, which shows honesty, and transparency.
• 📝Own Terms & Values: Have clear terms and values guiding their work, which reflects their professionalism and integrity.
• 👍Reviews: Has many positive feedback from past receivers. Although sometimes might hv some reviews that ask for improvements in certain areas. This make them human and normal.
• 🫂Community Trust: Recognized and respected by existing members or peers.

Signs to watchout for

• FIRST❗️❗️❗️Check his/her finger nails before session! Those who are inexperienced will never trim their fingernails before massage. Imagine their sharp and dirty fingernails inside or outside your yoni.
• Ask for sex or HJ or BJ in return before, during or after session (i never ask for these, if it happens naturally, it happens, if not don’t push ur way through)
• Rush in touching your erogenous zones Simply touching and rubbing your body without any proper flow and techniques on your body eg back, shoulders,thigh and etc.
• Never check with receiver on the amount of strength and energy they want on their body. End up giving too much strength causing pain to your body. Or giving light massage which serves no purpose at all.
• Bad breath👄🤢🤮 Don’t prioritize on hygiene (don’t shower before and after sessions)
• No communication 🗣 with you on your boundaries, likes and dislikes
• Love boasting that he/she can confirm make you squirt, and reach orgasm. While one might think tantric massage is all about mind-blowing orgasms and Squirting💦. However, i want to highlight that orgasms aren’t the main goal of this type of massage. Instead orgasm should be a bonus of the experience, but not the primary aim.
• Showing Genitals photos in yoni massage related postings: If they show their tools to the world in a yoni massage post hoping to get u to be interested with their massage, most likely they are predators. Describing how long is their tool is also a 🚩🚩🚩red flag. Since when Yoni Massage is about your tool🍌?
• The Bait-and-Switch: Advertise “professional Yoni massage.”Mid-session, demand for sex as “part of the process.”
• Trust Your Gut: Do they pressure you? That’s your body warning you. If a masseur makes you feel uneasy, pushes boundaries, or forcing you to help them release, leave immediately
• Too Good to Be True Offers: Everything I will provide for u for FREE or promises of “extra services” are major 🚩🚩🚩 red flags.

(Anonymous complaints from existing receivers) 🗣”He Said It Was Therapy. Then He Pressured Me for a ‘Mutual Flow.”

🗣”I trusted him because he had Instagram testimonials. Mid-session, he stripped and said, ‘Your healing depends on surrendering.’ I left crying. Later, I found out he’d done this to others.”

These are the few 👉major points mentioned by some of my receivers, if any of you had any Bad experience can add on in the comment section. This is to protect individuals who are looking for genuine tantric / yoni massage💆‍♂️ experience.