Recently, I received some PM questioning how I control my needs for sexual release during yoni massage. I felt compelled to address this and clarify my approach.

Below, I outline my principles and practices to ensure I stay true to my purpose and maintain integrity in my work.

1. Let Yoni Massage Be Yoni Massage : The primary purpose of Yoni massage is to create a safe, nurturing, and empowering experience for the receiver. It is not about my physical pleasure but about facilitating healing, connection, and self-discovery for the recipient. My focus remains on their comfort, boundaries, and emotional well-being throughout the session.
2. Work means Work, Pleasure means Pleasure : Let a massage session be a massage session. Will I be aroused? For sure yes – when the receiver is responding to my teasing, but definitely I will not be HARD throughout the entire session. I am darn focus when my hands are at work. If anything beyond the massage occurs, it must happen voluntarily, with clear communication, and only after the session has concluded. This ensures that the integrity of the massage itself is preserved and that all interactions are consensual and respectful
3. Massage is not the only activity & I Have Other Means for My Own Release : To maintain professionalism and emotional balance, I have developed personal practices that allow me to release energy and stay grounded.These include:

• Writing – Mental Release Writing is a powerful tool for processing emotions, reflecting on experiences, and expressing creativity. It helps me release mental tension and stay aligned with my purpose.
• Tantric Sex : An exclusive activity done only with selected individual(s) with deep connections. It’s the most satisfying release I’ve ever experienced in my entire life.
• Tantric Lingam Massage: If I need some sexual energy to be released, I will call upon my usual masseur for Tantric Lingam Massage. (I did some detail writeup on this as well, u may find it in my table of contents menu)
• Self-care through Edging activities : Learning to self-love and appreciate your body. Since Yoni Massage can be practiced alone, Lingam massage can be done alone as well. I practice edging alone too through humpings and unique hand work. It helps me last longer in bed and tantric sex. (Won’t go too much detail in this, unless someone wants to know further)
• Setting Clear Boundaries: To ensure a professional and respectful environment, I establish clear boundaries with receivers. This includes: Communicating the purpose and scope of the massage session. Respecting the receiver’s boundaries and ensuring they feel safe and comfortable.

My work is rooted in healing, empowerment, and authenticity. By staying true to my purpose, I provide meaningful, transformative experiences while maintaining my integrity and well-being.

This approach ensures every interaction is respectful, consensual, and aligned with my values, honoring both my receivers and myself.