Let’s hear from a professional (not entirely my writeup)

For those who hv patience and interest to understand deeper about Tantric Yoni Massage can visit this site. The explanations are quite detailed. Similar to how i do my session but more to it. https://somananda.org/blog/the-health-benefits-of-tantric-yoni-massage/ Here are some🔑key points from the blog above:

• Yoni Massage is just ONE part of a whole-body experience.It is vital that a trained therapist prepares a woman physically, emotionally, and energetically before massaging the yoni itself.
• This is done by massaging the whole body, from head to toe, in a precise and specific way and by incorporating energy into the practice.
• A woman needs to feel emotionally safe and secure so that the yoni exploration is comfortable, which in turn allows her to surrender to the process.
• In this state a woman allows the energy to germinate like a sprout, growing and developing to ultimately free herself of traumas or baggage that no longer serve her.
• Trust needs to be established between the therapist and client and an emotional connection created. Starting with the less intimate parts of the body and addressing the body as a whole creates the soil for such necessities to take root before the yoni is massaged.
• Tantric Yoni Massage acts as a gateway between an ordinary life and an extraordinary life, ordinary sex and extraordinary sex, and being an ordinary woman and a tantric woman!

Stages in a Yoni Massage

1. Preparation Stage – There are many things a woman could and should do before receiving a Tantra Massage, inclusive of Tantric Yoni Massage, in order to prepare herself and provide an optimal landscape for powerful effects to take place. Eg Avoid coffee or alcohol 48 hours minimally (longer is better) prior to a session, Avoid any drugs or toxic substances at least 7 days prior to your session. In the case of pharmaceutical drugs or medications continue taking as prescribed by your doctor, Eat lightly on the day of your session. Ideally you should arrive on an empty stomach to the appointment.
2. Discussion stage- Be as open, candid, and honest as you can be about your health history, past traumas, perceived blockages, goals of a session, and any other pertinent information. The more details you can provide to your therapist the better he or she will be able to discern whether Tantric Yoni Massage therapy is a good fit for you. In some cases, more time and preparation are needed before a session is scheduled. This is to help create a connection point between yourself and your therapist and also to share what you hope to achieve in that particular therapy session, as this can change from session to session. Intentions stage – It is important for a woman to be able to openly share and discuss intimate details with her Tantra Massage therapist so a session can be customized
3. Relaxation stage – Prior to receiving yoni massage your therapist should have provided a full-body massage experience to help you relax and to prepare you physically, mentally, emotionally, energetically, and spiritually. The serene atmosphere and the massage itself should lull you into a more calm, detached, and liberated place. Focus on your breath and how you feel as each technique is applied and perceive the sensations brought about by each massage stroke This will keep your mind from running amok and keep you focused on the experience itself and the present moment. Visualize and imagine energy moving up from the lower parts of your body to the higher parts. Speak up and provide feedback to your therapist in the event something is painful or uncomfortable or if you need more or less pressure. Say the word “relax” silently, in your mind, over and over again, as though you are trying to self-hypnotize and convince your mind and body to relax more and more.