– Yes and No. Squirting during intense pleasure is a natural phenomenon for some individuals, but it varies greatly from person to person. Factors like anatomy, arousal levels, relaxation, and stimulation techniques can play a role, but it’s not something that can be forced or guaranteed.

– For some, it happens spontaneously, while others may never experience it—and that’s completely normal. Open communication, exploration, and focusing on mutual pleasure rather than a specific outcome can enhance intimacy. If either partner feels pressure to perform in a certain way, it may actually hinder the experience.

– If this is something you’re both curious about, patience and understanding are key. Every person’s body responds uniquely, and what matters most is shared enjoyment and connection.

Every body is different. What works for one person may not for another. The goal should always be mutual pleasure, not performance. Even though I did lots of preparations, sometimes squirting or climax may not happen too.

Hydration Matters: Drinking enough water beforehand can help, as fluid release is linked to hydration. Avoid excessive caffeine or alcohol, as they can dehydrate.

Relaxation is Key: Stress and tension can make it harder for the body to respond naturally. A calm, pressure-free setting (soft lighting, music, privacy, no distractions) helps.

Skills: (trade secret)

Comfort & Mindset: Use a towel or waterproof blanket to avoid worry about mess. Reassure your receiver to just let go of the fluid whenever she feels like it. As some of them are afraid that they accidentally pee. I always tell my receiver to feel free to release anything from within, as I use double layer of waterproof sheets.

Trust & Communication: My formula to build trust (Trade secret)

Education & Anticipation: I keep a set of super simple SOP & guideline, to step-by-step prepare their body to receive. It covers breathing, response, and relaxation techniques (How? Trade secret).

The question of whether squirting is urine has been debated, but here’s what current science suggests:

In summary, research did show that squirting fluid contains some urine, but also other substances like prostate-specific antigen (PSA) and female ejaculate (from Skene’s glands, aka “female prostate”).

So, What’s Happening to your body when you squirt?

• The bladder fills slightly during arousal.
• Upon intense stimulation, the body may release a mix of urine (from bladder) and clear fluid (from Skene’s glands).
• Some individuals release more, some less.

Why Does It Smell or Look Like Pee Sometimes?

Since the bladder is involved, the fluid can have a mild urine odor or color, especially if hydration is low. Proper hydration can make the fluid clearer and less noticeable.

In summary: It’s a mix, not purely one or the other. The body’s response differs by individuals. What matters the most is that both partners feel comfortable and enjoy the experience without overanalyzing.

The relationship between squirting and orgasm differs from woman to woman.

Here’s how the experiences can differ:

3️⃣ Possible Stages

• Cumming (Female Ejaculation): A small release of thick, whitish fluid (from Skene’s glands) often during intense pleasure—may or may not coincide with orgasm.
• Orgasm: The peak of pleasure, with or without fluid release.
• Squirting: A larger gush of fluid (often diluted urine mixed with other fluids) that can happen before, during, or after orgasm—or even without one.

Different Women, Different Experiences

• I Orgasm While Squirting: Some feel their strongest orgasms during squirting, as the release intensifies pleasure.
• I Squirt, But No Orgasm: Others release fluid without reaching climax—more like a pressure relief than a pleasurable peak.
• Feels Like Separate Events: Some experience cumming, orgasm, and squirting as distinct sensations, sometimes minutes apart.

Why the Differences?

• Nerve Sensitivity: Stimulation of the urethra/bladder vs. clitoris vs. G-spot creates different responses.
• Hydration/Full Bladder: A fuller bladder may make squirting easier, but doesn’t guarantee orgasm.
• Mental State: Relaxation and arousal levels play a huge role.

My take: There’s no “right” way to experience it. Pleasure is deeply individual—focus on exploration, not expectations.

Here are some of the direct feedback from my receivers who squirted for their first time under my tantric yoni massage session.