Tantric Sex (A General Overview)

What’s the difference between Tantric sex and Tantric massage? The difference is obvious, one is SEX, and the other is MASSAGE.

A genuine Tantric & Yoni Masseur knows the difference that is why they don’t ask for SEX during a Tantric / Yoni Massage session.

Tantric sex is not massage, and we don’t do it with anybody, as it is something very special and intimate. Unless i have special connection with that person then yes we can explore that option.

Tantric sex is not your usual type of sex which involves foreplay and penetration. Its a type of slow intimacy that connects with your partner and yourself on a deeper level, beyond just physical pleasure.

Here are 4️⃣ main key points:

1. Slow pace: There is no hurry in Tantric sex to reach orgasm, but its about savoring and enjoying every moment. Just like enjoying a fine dining meal with someone special.
2. Mind-body connection: Just like Tantric massage, it involves being present and aware of your thoughts, emotions, and physical sensations, creating a sense of unity between your mind, body, and soul.
3. Sensory: A complete Tantric sex experience uses our 5 senses, sight, sound, touch, taste, and smell, to create an unforgettable mind blowing experience.
4. Intimacy: The goal is to form a deeper connection with your partner, spiritually, emotionally and physically. Creating deeper trust and love.

Tantric sex (How to?)

1. Create a Safe Space: Just like how i used to conduct my Yoni Massage session, first find a quiet, private and comfortable place. Set the mood with fragrance essential oil, comfortable bedding, temperature, dim lighting & tantric music.
2. Comfortable clothings: Wear comfortable clothing, and consider building up to undressing.
3. Breathing: Practice continuous and deep belly breathing to relax, prolong pleasure, and spread sexual energy throughout the body. Inhale as your partner exhales, and vice versa.
4. Emphasize Intimacy Over Orgasm: Instead of focusing on reaching orgasm, prioritize building intimacy and connection with your partner. This can involve slow, sensual movements, eye contact, & gentle touch.
5. Soul Gazing: Looking into each other’s eyes (soul gazing) to deepen the emotional and spiritual connection with ur partner.

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6. Positioning: My favorite tantric sex position is lap sitting, where one partner sits on the other’s lap, wrapping their legs around their waist. This position allows for close and intimate contact, making it easy to synchronize breath and engage in eye gazing, which are key aspects of tantric sex practice.

7. Deep Thrusting: i love this part. Don’t rush into penetration. Take your time to build the anticipation. Then focus on slow deep thrusts with slow rhythm. Experiment with edging to build pleasure and prolong the experience.
8. Practicing edging: Getting close to orgasm and backing off just at the right timing. Building endurance and pleasure. Understanding each other’s body signals and verbal signs when they almost reaching orgasm is crucial in this part. Just like Tantric Yoni massage, tantric sex is not about achieving a specific outcome (e.g., orgasm).

Focus on the journey, rather than the destination. The journey of spiritual connection, intimacy, and personal growth with ur partner.

Couples, do try out what i have suggested and tell me your experience.