Over time, I’ve met many sincere clients who genuinely seek healing and connection through Tantric massage — but I’ve also encountered NUMEROUS non-genuine receivers (I call them TIME WASTERS) who misuse the space and energy we provide.

Previously, I wrote about non-genuine Tantric Yoni masseurs, and to be fair and transparent, it’s equally important to address the other side — the non-genuine receivers, customers, or inquirers — and the patterns of behavior they tend to show.

By sharing this, my goal is to protect and support genuine masseurs who pour their heart, time, and energy into preparing and serving their clients with sincerity and mindfulness.

Here are some common list of TIME WASTERS, I have encountered:

1. The Rushing Ones: These are the people who contact me and expect a session today or as soon as possible — as if I’m running a regular massage parlor.
   • My Message to Them: please take some time to research and understand what a Yoni Massage truly is before rushing to book a session. This work requires preparation, presence, and respect — not haste.
2. The Types of Husbands Who Find Understanding Their Wife’s Needs Too Tedious: This type of client often complains that the process is “too tedious”, even when I ask them to provide a general introduction and survey form to understand their partner’s body, needs, and boundaries before the session. I divide them into the categories as follow:
   • The Self-Focused Husband: Only cares about his own thrill, impatient with preparation, and ignore of his wife’s comfort or safety.
   • The Overconfident Husband: Believes he already knows everything about his wife’s needs and dismisses guidance.
     • My Message to Them: Do you truly care about your wife’s needs and safety? Or are you just seeking the thrill of watching a stranger touch her? What about her comfort, respect, and boundaries?
3. The Temporary Thrill-Seekers: These are people who contact you only to satisfy their fleeting curiosity or personal thrill. They may shower you with compliments, lure you into sharing stories, express excitement about your work, or even send photos — all for their own temporary pleasure. Once they’ve had their “fun,” they disappear without a trace.
   • My Message to Them: This space is not for cheap thrills or curiosity. If you are not serious, respectful, or willing to engage with sincerity, please do not waste my time or energy.
4. The Last-Minute Cancellers: These are clients who genuinely want a session, go through all the processes, and book the session — but cancel or go MIA at the last minute due to other commitments, never contacting you again and disappearing completely.
   • My Message to Them: I am not your backup plan. Respect both our time — last-minute cancellations disrupt preparation, energy, and flow for genuine sessions.
5. The Vague Ones: These are the most common of all. They send one-line messages like:
   • “Hi”
   • “Hi, do you provide Yoni Massage?”
   • “Can you massage my wife?”
   • All without reading my instructions or FAQs. After sending these messages, they disappear completely, and some don’t even read my reply when I respond.
     • My message to them: If you cannot take a moment to read instructions and respect the process, do not contact me.
6. The Disrespectful Ones: This type of client goes through all the preparations in advance but, on the day of the session, postpones multiple times, gives vague arrival updates, arrives late, and is physically or mentally unready for the session. Sometimes, they fail to disclose important conditions or limitations beforehand, resulting in wasted hours and disrupted plans.
   • My message to them: Be honest and upfront about your limitations or conditions before booking. I cannot accommodate last-minute delays, vague excuses, or undisclosed issues that compromise preparation, safety, and the session itself. Respect my time and your own well-being.

Due to all these Time and Energy Wasters, stricter terms are now in place. If you cannot agree to my terms, I will not entertain you from the start. All new or first-time clients must provide a deposit before any preparation begins. Stop wasting my time and energy — enough is enough. Check-out my FAQs here before contacting me.

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