Recently, I’ve been receiving inquiries—usually from men—requesting yoni massage sessions for their wives or partners. And more often than not, these messages are filled with descriptions of how “sexy and petite” their partner is. Some go on and on about their partner’s body, like they’re trying to sell me on the idea.

Your partner is sexy? SO WHAT?
That has nothing to do with the work I do. I’m not here to be impressed or enticed by your partner’s looks. My services are not driven by physical appearance or your personal fantasies. This is a healing practice, grounded in safety, respect, and consent. Full stop.

Let me be very clear: I will not proceed with any session unless I’ve directly connected with the individual receiving it and confirmed their full, conscious consent. The moment I explain this process, many of these self-appointed spokespeople just back off—because deep down, they were never approaching with the right intentions to begin with.

If you think listing off your partner’s sex appeal is going to fast-track my process, you’re sorely mistaken. I don’t do shortcuts. And I certainly don’t compromise the integrity of my work just to appease someone who’s more interested in titillation than transformation.

I take time to prepare for each session with care and clarity. Every person I work with deserves to feel safe, respected, and informed. If that sounds too “tedious” to you, then let me save you the trouble—my services are not for you.

But if you understand that this work is sacred, if you respect the process and the professionalism it demands, then I welcome you. Otherwise, if you’re just out here looking for a thrill under the guise of “healing,” you can look elsewhere. Just don’t expect safety, integrity, or professionalism from whoever you find.

This is real work. Real healing. No ego, no games, and definitely no shortcuts.

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